Dating sites for ostomates
Orgasm and ejaculation are separate actions, so while your body may be on board with the orgasm, it may take some work to get your mind there.
The more intensive your ostomy-surgery was in your pelvic regions, the higher the risk for surgical damage to occur.
All that is proof that you can date and find love with an ostomy, but despite that, dating can be scary in itself and you’ll be doing it with a big “secret” to reveal at some point so here are some tips and things to remember about sharing the news.
I compiled this from my own experience as well as from conversations with ostomate friends and strangers (I asked for advice in some social media based ostomy groups).
If you are interested in having kids after surgery, it doesn’t hurt to talk to your surgeon about options for saving your sperm, just in case.
Remember – these complications don’t happen to everyone, but it’s good to be aware of them.
Remember to keep a positive attitude in the bedroom and include humor in your life.
I think it’s important to point out intimacy includes sex but is so much more.From all the reading I’ve done, it seems like it’s not always permanent and in fact, the ejaculation part is often more a response to anxiety than an actual physical problem.It does not matter what kind of ostomy surgery you had, you will not lose your ability to orgasm.When you were talking to your surgeon about getting an ostomy, hopefully they told you you can do anything with an ostomy that you did before.Dating and sex are included in that blanket statement.