How to handle dating someone going through a divorce
Your divorce will probably be one of the most intense emotional experiences you’ll ever face. I had all these powerful emotions hit me one after another, often in a confusing and frightening way. The world of divorce can feel like a tornado has come through your life and wiped away all that was familiar and safe.
I thought of it as being tied up, blind-folded and stuffed into the front seat of a runaway roller coaster.
(I felt like a double loser when it happened to me.)Even worse, people sometimes deal with the loneliness of their divorce by talking with their kids about it.It’s easy to think that your grief and loneliness are so profound that they must need a complex answer to help soothe them.But the truth is, simple is often best because you can apply these solutions again and again and again.Each person on this list can help you gain both perspective and wisdom about what your future healing process holds Here I’m being very specific about the people who are typically great at helping because I have seen firsthand the mistakes people make when they try to rely on people for counsel who are not vested in your healing.Unfortunately, many people think that the way to deal with their loneliness is to seek another relationship. When you enter into another relationship before allowing yourself to heal completely and become a whole person again, you run the risk of getting into a relationship with someone who is just like your ex or someone who is the exact opposite.